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Name of deceased
Hebrew name of deceased
Hebrew name of parents of the deceased
Social Security number
Birth date
Birthplace
Fathers name, Mothers Name
and Mothers maiden name
Veterans discharge papers
Education
Marital status
Residence of the deceased
Cemetery deed/location and ownership
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Seek information and learn about the beauty and meaning of traditional
Jewish burial practices.
Call your synagogue and Rabbi first to assist you and to guide the
funeral arrangements you make. If you do not have a rabbi, Gutterman's
can assist you in engaging one.
Interment should not be unnecessarily delayed.
Ostentation should be avoided.
The dress and behavior of family and friends should reflect the dignity
and solemnity of the occasion.
Visiting with and viewing of the remains (open casket) are contrary
to Jewish law.
Flowers and music have no place at the Jewish funeral service.
Cremation is a service we offer. Speak to your Gutterman's professional
for more information.
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Aron (A-rone) the burial casket. Jewish burial requires
a wooden casket in keeping with the Biblical teaching "For dust
art thou and to the dust thou shalt return" (Genesis 3:19)
Taharah - (Ta-ha-rah) the traditional washing and dressing
of the deceased with dignity. Performed by trained members of the
Chevra Kadisha (Sacred Society). In accordance with Jewish traditional
law, men prepare men, while women prepare women. Embalming, cosmetizing
or any other artificial preparation of the remains is not permitted
by Jewish law.
Tachrichim - (Takh-ree-kheem) the burial shroud. A full set
of traditional white clothing, preferably made of linen, includes:
hat, shirt, pants, jacket, belt and wrapping sheet. This garment symbolizes
equality and purity.
Sheloshim (shlosh-sheem) the thirty days following
burial (including shiva).
Shmira - (Shmee-rah) the watching of remains. To show respect
to the departed, the deceased is never left alone until after burial.
The Schomer (Watcher) traditionally recites psalms.
Shiva (Shee-vah) the traditional seven-day mourning
period immediately following burial, observed by the bereaved. Consult
your rabbi for details on the customs and observances of shiva.
Kaddish (Ka-dish) the traditional prayer in praise of
G-d, recited after burial.
Keriah (Kree-ah) the practice of rending or cutting
a garment, or symbolically wearing a cut black ribbon over the heart,
to indicate that one is in mourning. Those observing keriah are generally
adult children, father/mother, brother/sister, or spouse of the deceased.
Kvurah B'karka (Kvoo-rah Bkar-kah) burial in the
ground. Biblical mandate requires burial in the ground, filling the
grave completely until a mound is formed. Participation in filling
the grave is a religious privilege and duty and an expression of honor
for the deceased. Above ground burial is an option you may discuss
with the Gutterman's staff.
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If
you are affiliated with a synagogue:
Call the synagogue first. Speak with your rabbi and inform him or
her of your loss. The Rabbi can assist in making funeral arrangements,
provide grief counseling and answer questions on Jewish customs and
practice.
Who will conduct the service? When and where will the service be?
It is important to make these decisions jointly with the rabbi and
the funeral director. Do not give friends and relatives the time and
place of a funeral or memorial service until both the rabbi and the
funeral director have confirmed the time and place.
If you are unaffiliated:
Call Gutterman's. Let us assist you in arranging the funeral, the interment,
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